Men dating plus size women
One time, I was at a dance with a date and I went to go to the bathroom and when I came back there was a girl in my chair.
She just assumed that he wasn't with me or something. I don't think men judge women for their looks any more than women judge men. I think most women have to get over their own insecurities and realize that there are plenty of men who find them attractive, and if a couple don't, that's fine.
With dating sites like Tinder, it's made it a lot easier to judge people only on their looks.
And I don't judge them for that because, like I said, I am only attracted to certain types as well.
There is fetishism of the BBW community, so I make it very clear when I start talking to somebody online that if they're not attracted to all body types, I won't date them.
That is important to me because I have lost 100 pounds before.
Even the guy getting his hair cut, who had his back to me, found a way to check me out in the mirrors reflection. Although I couldn’t see who was saying what, I kept my ears peeled as they continued to talk on the other side of the room.
A lot of these women have had surgeries and have lost weight, but they still stay involved with the community. But I also think that it's easier to say, "This is what I am interested in so I am going to message this person," and the same thing goes for men who are interested in BBW women.
I was on one end of the salon getting my hair done and on the other end a barber stood by watching another barber cut his clients hair.
I didn’t pay much attention to them until I needed to go to the ladies room.
Yesterday I decided to get my hair blown out and straightened (not the smartest decision considering its raining today, but whatever.) The woman who does my hair moved to a unisex hair salon in Harlem, so I made my way over to see her.
It was a Sunday and the place was more or less empty.