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But this drama gets unpacked in nuanced ways that transcend the usual drama for drama’s sake.
“I’m so used to going after people like you; it’s hard for me to get out of that mindset,” she tells him.
For instance, early on, Nour, described as an “aggressive possessive” (the castmates are all chyroned with their relationship style) tells the group about her difficulties coming out as queer in her Jordanian Muslim family and community.
How do you talk to another girl if you are shy and perhaps inexperienced in the lezzer dating world? The first thing to understand is that we tend to be a threat to men. Finally, don’t say, “I like you, but I’m not sure I am a lesbian” – she will be offended. It is great being a lesbian, and even better when you have others in your life to keep reminding you so.
If you do go on a date with a woman, unless you are in a lesbian bar, it is likely that some bloke will see two women having a warm conversation and you will be asked – “What are you lovely ladies doing all on your own? You will politely remind him that it is not possible for two people chatting together to be ‘on their own’, and soon you will have changed from ‘lovely ladies’ to ‘bloody rug munchers’. One of the great things about being a lesbian is not having to focus most of your conversations on men – Bridget Jones style.
But it hewed to a similar logic, in which 16 straight men and 16 lesbians competed for Tila’s affections, with the curveball being that the contestants were not aware of her bisexuality.
(She chose the guy in the first season, and later claimed she was never bisexual and was simply “gay for pay.” Since then she also seemed to become a Nazi sympathizer.) More recently, Logo’s 2016 The Bachelor knockoff Finding Prince Charming was so in thrall to its straight counterpart — indicated by the casting of the bland, if well-built, Prince Charming — that it failed to establish its own identity.