Dating problems in todays society
But the gigantic shift in dating culture really started to take hold the following year, when Tinder expanded to Android phones, then to more than 70 percent of smartphones worldwide.
Shortly thereafter, many more dating apps came online.
You don’t look like what I thought you looked like,’ and walked away.”But other users complain of rudeness even in early text interactions on the app.
Some of that nastiness could be chalked up to dating apps’ dependence on remote, digital communication; the classic “unsolicited dick pic sent to an unsuspecting match” scenario, for example.
“Because a few of them will say to me, ‘Uhhh, we met on Tinder’—like, ‘Where else do you think we would have met?
Some also believe that the relative anonymity of dating apps—that is, the social disconnect between most people who match on them—has also made the dating landscape a ruder, flakier, crueler place.The 30-year-old Jess Flores of Virginia Beach got married to her first and only Tinder date this past October, and she says they likely would have never met if it weren’t for the app.For starters, Flores says, the guys she usually went for back in 2014 were what she describes as “sleeve-tattoo” types.“Whereas if you’re meeting someone purely based on geographic location, there’s definitely a greater chance that they would be different from you in some way.”But there’s also a downside to dating beyond one’s natural social environment.“People who are not very similar to their romantic partners end up at a greater risk for breaking up or for divorce,” she says.