Dating one girl love another
She's extremely smart, loyal as hell, as witty as it gets, and has a ton of sex appeal, so, girl, I totally get it. Except, I'm already a lesbian, so the experience of crushing on a woman isn't quite as jarring for me as it is for you.I've had plenty of straight friends who have felt totally bewildered by the sudden onset of a lesbian crush.If she has a girlfriend, you need to respect that and move on.You don't want to be a home-wrecker and tempt the lesbian to do something destructive like break up with her girlfriend for you, only for you to decide it was just a phase. )Also, it's a little embarrassing to confess having a crush on someone who's already loved up.
PSA: Just because a person is gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual or fluid, doesn't mean they're attracted to every person of the same gender.
And my purpose in life is to help protect you from embarrassment.
OK, so if you've dutifully followed thought about the previous five things on this list, and you're still teeming with desire for your lez crush, let's get to the real shit now: Are you prepared to lose the friendship?
Every lesbian I know has had her heart crushed by a straight girl. And she might not be ready to risk having another scar on her body.
One time, even I (the gayest gay on the block) had a strange crush on a boy.